IFS & Attachment-Based Therapy

with Eryn Healy, LCSW

Helping anxiously and avoidantly attached people build secure connections with self and others

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Sound familiar?

You feel like you’re “too much” or not enough

You struggle to trust love, even when it’s consistent

You constantly worry and overthink every interaction

You shut down during conflict or intense conversations

You choose partners who are emotionally unavailable

You’re exhausted from performing in relationships

You feel suffocated by emotional expectations

You crave connection but fear losing yourself in it

You pull away when someone gets too close

Your patterns are not character flaws. They are adaptations you learned in order to survive love that didn’t feel safe.

You can learn to feel secure in connection.

You can heal the wounds beneath the patterns.

And you don't have to do it alone.

My Approach

I specialize in IFS & attachment-based therapy that goes beyond insight and into deep, embodied and long-lasting transformation.

You probably already know a lot about your patterns. You've read the attachment books, taken the quizzes, recognized yourself in the descriptions. And still, the knowing hasn't been enough. Understanding why you're anxious or avoidant doesn't stop the patterns from showing up.

Because attachment wounds don't live in your thoughts. They live in your nervous system, in your body, in the automatic reactions that happen before you even have time to think.

My approach is deep, relational and somatic. I want to help you get beyond insight and move towards a place of True Healing.

I integrate:

Internal Family Systems (IFS/parts work): A model of therapy that views the mind as a community of “parts”. Maybe there's the part of you that needs constant reassurance. Or a part that withdraws when things get intense. Most likely there’s an inner critic that tells you you're too much or not enough. I see many individuals who have a people-pleaser part that learned early on that love is conditional. In our work together, we'll get to know these parts. We want to understand what these parts of you are protecting and help them trust that you (your authentic most grounded self) can lead. When your inner parts feel safe, you can show up in relationships from a place of security instead of survival.

Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT): Emotion-Focused Therapy is rooted in attachment science and helps you access the deeper emotions beneath your protective patterns. EFT helps you identify the attachment fears driving your reactions, access the vulnerable emotions you've learned to protect or avoid, express your needs in ways that invite connection instead of pushing people away and rewire your emotional responses so you can stay present in intimacy without losing yourself. This work creates new emotional experiences (not just new understanding!) so secure attachment becomes something you actually embody.

Somatic and Mindfulness-Based Therapy: Attachment wounds live in your nervous system and body, not just your mind. Your body learned to respond to intimacy with anxiety (clinging, hypervigilance) or avoidance (shutting down, numbing). Talk therapy alone can't shift these deeply wired patterns. Through somatic work, we'll help your nervous system learn that connection can be safe, vulnerability doesn't mean losing yourself, and that you can feel emotions without being overwhelmed. We'll use breathwork, body awareness, mindfulness and grounding practices to build new neural pathways so secure attachment becomes a felt experience in your body, not just an idea in your head.

Emotional Therapist Eryn Healy, LCSW, uses a supportive, collaborative approach to empower individuals to heal from trauma and release burdensome subconscious beliefs.
  • Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) - California & Massachusetts

  • Master of Social Work - University of Southern California, 2018

  • Bachelor of Health Science - California State University Fullerton, 2014

  • Certified ANFT Nature and Forest Therapy Guide, 2024

  • Certified Trauma-Informed Somatic Breathwork Facilitator, 2024

  • Relational & collaborative (your process, my guidance)

  • Warm but direct (not just nodding and reflecting)

  • Somatic & body-based (nervous system + emotions, not just thoughts)

  • Commitment to equity: Mental health doesn't exist in a vacuum. Systems like white supremacy, patriarchy and capitalism shape our lives and wellbeing. As a white, cisgender therapist, I'm committed to ongoing accountability, decolonizing my practice and honoring each client's cultural wisdom and lived experience. Conversations about identity, power and liberation are welcome here.

  • When I'm not in session, you'll find me hiking, reading, backpacking or experimenting in the kitchen. I love slow mornings, strong coffee and anything that gets me outside and in nature. My favorite color is green (obviously!)

More About Me

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